Holiday Spending Survival Guide: Advice From A Financial Expert
It’s a tale as old as time. You go into the holiday season with a plan—“This year, I’ll stick to my budget!”—but by January, your bank account is in shambles, and you’re side-eyeing your credit card balance like it personally betrayed you. Sound familiar? Same here. But let’s be honest: the real culprit is holiday overspending.
The good news? You don’t have to fall into this trap year after year. In the recent episode of Money Dates conversation, the panel uncovered some game-changing advice on how to enjoy the holidays without the dreaded spending hangover. Here’s a breakdown of the insights that I picked up from the financial expert in the conversation, Khayakazi Madlavu, these might just might save your wallet—and your sanity.
Set a Realistic Budget (and Actually Stick to It)
You’ve heard it before, but it’s worth repeating: a budget is your best friend. Start by listing out all your holiday expenses—gifts, travel, food, decorations, and even those sneaky last-minute purchases you always forget about. Once you have your total, decide how much you can realistically spend without relying on credit.
Pro Tip: Use a budgeting app or a simple spreadsheet to keep track of every dollar. It’s not as boring as it sounds—it’s empowering!
2. Master the Art of Saying "No"
Holiday spending isn’t just about money; it’s about boundaries. We often overspend because we’re trying to keep up with others’ expectations—be it lavish gifts, hosting extravagant dinners, or attending every event.
The truth is, saying “no” (politely, of course) is one of the best gifts you can give yourself.
Try this: “I’d love to, but this year I’m focusing on more meaningful, budget-friendly ways to celebrate.” Trust me, people will understand.
3. Shift Your Focus from Spending to Meaningful Experiences
A financial hangover often stems from overspending on things that don’t actually bring lasting joy. Instead of splurging on material items, consider gifting experiences, handwritten notes, or even acts of service. These can be more memorable—and cost less—than expensive store-bought gifts.
Examples:
A “movie night in” kit for a friend who loves cozy evenings.
Baking a batch of cookies for your coworkers.
Offering your time to help someone with a project or errand.
4. Plan for Post-Holiday You
Here’s a reality check: January will arrive, and it doesn’t care about your holiday spending spree. Start thinking about your future self now. Avoid relying on credit cards or draining your savings by setting aside some money for January expenses before the holiday madness begins.
Curb Impulse Buys: If it’s not in your budget, it’s not in your cart. Period.
5. Learn from Last Year’s Spending Hangover
If you’ve ever felt that sinking feeling when your January bank statement arrives, let it motivate you to do things differently this year. Reflect on where you went overboard last time and make small changes to avoid the same pitfalls.
Ask yourself:
Which purchases brought genuine joy?
What felt like wasted money?
How can I avoid repeating those mistakes?
Overspending during the holidays is a hard habit to break, but it’s not impossible. With a little planning, some firm boundaries, you can celebrate without sacrificing your financial peace of mind. And if you’re feeling like you need more guidance, we’ve got you covered. Watch the full conversation on YouTube or Spotify. You’ll learn practical tips, relatable advice, and maybe even have a few “aha!” moments.
PS: The best gift you can give yourself this season? A January free of financial stress, and I am not a financial expert, this is just advice I got from the conversation I’ve been mentioning, I think you should check it out.